why dont some guys know how to be straight up with what they want ? if you want a relationship say that, if you just want sex say that…it would save everybody so much time & energy
Because most guys don’t know how to be straight up, and when they are it backfires. A lot of guys will blame the girls, but it’s more of a guy problem. A guy will want sex, so he’ll walk up to a girl and literally ask, “What that mouth do,” or something to that effect. It’s inappropriate, rude, and frankly a turn off for most girls. Yet most guys think that that is the only way to be direct and upfront.
Most guys just need to learn to be upfront AND respectful about what they want. Granted, it’s hard to ask for sex without sounding nasty or rude, but it can be done. The same for dating. Asking a girl out is as simple as, “Hey, my name is X and I’d like to have coffee, lunch, etc. with you.” If she says no, so be it, and if she says yes then awesome.
A lot of us just want a sure fire yes, instead of a possible no. We’re worried about failing, so we beat around the bush until we know that we can get what we want.
9 hours on my feet making food……I need a new freaking job.
Asiyami: ok jump!
Me:hell no I’m gonna look stupid.
Asiyami: boy if you don’t jump!
After 3 attempts I still looks like a 50s cartoon lol or a failed @kjohn_lasoul photo..still love it haha
At least everyone got a good laugh at my expense lmao